George Takei

[synch]

Is he known for any quotes other than "oh my" ?.. any trek quotes he is known for ?... Pretty sure the oh my thing is not from trek @loll@

[Wheeljack35]

Well on facebook he is a nut you should see the stuff he posts

[synch]

saw him at the con he was cool didn't get anything signed but got a photo

[hamsterboy]

Next time you see him anywhere,tell him "You're fired".

[Wheeljack35]

Next time you see him anywhere,tell him "You're fired".

 

 

@smilepunch@ @loll@

[Montgomery]

I was a guest at a con in London two years back and was sat two seats down from him. I was adjacent to the gap to get out. He kept going to the toilet every ten minutes, and made a point of touching me on the shoulder everytime he went past, to the point of me having to do a comic dodge everytime he got up.

 

I don't know if shoulder touching is gay code for "Follow me to the toilet" lol.

[Wheeljack35]

I was a guest at a con in London two years back and was sat two seats down from him. I was adjacent to the gap to get out. He kept going to the toilet every ten minutes, and made a point of touching me on the shoulder everytime he went past, to the point of me having to do a comic dodge everytime he got up.

 

I don't know if shoulder touching is gay code for "Follow me to the toilet" lol.

 

 

LOl sounds like he likes you

[apocalypse484]

It's okay to be Takei. It's okay to be Takei

[Dick_Grayson]

I was a guest at a con in London two years back and was sat two seats down from him. I was adjacent to the gap to get out. He kept going to the toilet every ten minutes, and made a point of touching me on the shoulder everytime he went past, to the point of me having to do a comic dodge everytime he got up.

 

I don't know if shoulder touching is gay code for "Follow me to the toilet" lol.

 

Oh man, that would have been so annoying... Ive had the unfortunate experiences of being hit on by gay guys, and some are so brazen that they actually start to touch (like my shoulder or arm, but the worst was with this story that about about to tell you)...

 

I was at a store once looking for slacks, where the tailor turned out to be a gay guy, he had the swishiness and everything. I told the guy my pants size, but he still insisted on measuring my waist... Long story short the bastard padded down my crotch where my penis was at, twice with the top part of his hand... I was so pissed that I was tempted to elbow him severely hard in the face, because he did it in a way where we both knew that he was trying to be fresh, but I just couldn't prove it... And before I left the bastard goes "so when am I going to see you again? cause you're hot!" I was so fckin disgusted...I just stormed out. I don't care if someone wants to be gay (to each his own), just don't bring that sht to guys, that aren't giving any "gay signals" or even looking at you....

 

Some gay guys could be very disrespectful, with the gay flirting, even after they know that you're straight. That's what pisses me off about some gay guys like that...because at that point its just disrespectful... They wouldn't like it if a woman began hitting on them, or being brazen enough to pat down their crotches, but playing it off as if you're trying to see the measurement of my pants... Yea he was trying to see the measurement of something, but it wasn't my pants...

 

 

Many gays use the slogan, "we're here, and we're queer". My saying to them is, "you could be queer, but be queer over there..."

[Dick_Grayson]

It's okay to be Takei. It's okay to be Takei

Haha! I get it. While I don't have anything against the man, I remember he was on Howard Stern a few years ago, and a switch-hitter by the name of Jonah Falcon was on the show... Falcon claims to have a 13" penis (Ive never seen it, and don't want to), and when Falcon was allegedly whipping it out on the show, Mr. Takei kept offering to want to touch it..... I guess gay guys love big c*cks, for some reason, even more so that some females it seems...

[revsears]

in an effort to keep this post... off topic, I'll share a funny story.

 

Several years ago I worked at a ministry campus that offered several outreach activities, one of my co-workers happened to be gay. He was open with some of us, but did not act on the desire, believing the act was sinful. (not tyring to open up a can of worms here, this has a funny pay off)

As time went on, i never he changed his mind on that and we ended up going out to eat, we usually did so in a crowd, but everyone else was busy. Then a man a recognized as a "friend" of my buddy pulled up to the restaurant, looked pissed and then drove away. Little did I know they were more than friends, The man thought he cought my buddy cheaitng on him... with me ! awkward... I never went out by myself to grab some grub with him again ! Also my friend who so strongly refused to act on his temptations? Lives as a woman now and recently befriend me on face book as the very ugly, "cassie nova." It too me awhile to figure out who that hideous old woman was! When I did I was shocked!

[Doom Saber]

Because everyone here seems to be sharing a story, I will share my own.

 

When I was going to a community college several years ago, I befriended this guy. Off the bat I knew he was gay - in regard to attitude, he is the stereotypical type; the one that talks in an accent and say, "Talk to the hand, girl cause the face ain't listening."

 

We hung out a lot. There were signs that he was into me, but I didn't connect the dots until a few years later.

 

A few years ago, I transferred to a University. I also haven't seen my friend in years. At the time, he moved to Sacramento for schooling. Since my University was near his, we decided to meet one day. The night before we were going to meet, I called him up and chatted. We ended up talking about butt hair going around the anal cavity - don't ask how that conversation started since I don't know how. To change the subject, I told him about this girl I was flirting with in class. He then starting to mock me, saying "Did you F**k her?" It got to the point where I had to admit that I was a virgin (at the time.)

 

He then said "It isn't gay for one guy to have sex with another guy for experience. Do you want to have sex?" My response was "Hell No!" Trying to not hurt his feelings, I continued with "Sorry. I don't eat ice cream just because it is ice cream. With that said, I wouldn't eat a broceli flavored ice cream just because it is ice cream. Because of it would cost me 40 bucks to Sac and then to my parents' house in the Bay Area(I visit my parents every weekend) as oppose to taking the University bus and heading to BA for 9 bucks, I decided not to meet him up the next day. We ended up not being friends for an unrelated reason.

 

As for hints, the guy likes Vietnamese American guys; back when we were at the junior college, I would tell him about my female crushes wheras he would tell me his. He said how he doesn't like Asians with the exception of Vietnamese guys since they have French blood - I think I told him my great grandmother was part French. He also went on about how when he just moved to Oakland, he started to date a Viet American. Funny thing was that at the time, he just moved to Oakland from LA and was single. So who was this Vietnamese American guy is he talking about? I had never heard of him before. After he asked me if I wanted to have sex with him years later, I finally realized that he meant me. Yikes!

 

Anyway, I roommated with another gay guy a year after my friend asked me for sex. This guy turned out to be a great roommate; he and his boyfriend(who was an artist for two issues of the Punisher) were the non-stereotypical gay couple. Currently, my best friend is a lesbian.

[Dick_Grayson]

in an effort to keep this post... off topic, I'll share a funny story.

 

Several years ago I worked at a ministry campus that offered several outreach activities, one of my co-workers happened to be gay. He was open with some of us, but did not act on the desire, believing the act was sinful. (not tyring to open up a can of worms here, this has a funny pay off)

As time went on, i never he changed his mind on that and we ended up going out to eat, we usually did so in a crowd, but everyone else was busy. Then a man a recognized as a "friend" of my buddy pulled up to the restaurant, looked pissed and then drove away. Little did I know they were more than friends, The man thought he cought my buddy cheaitng on him... with me ! awkward... I never went out by myself to grab some grub with him again ! Also my friend who so strongly refused to act on his temptations? Lives as a woman now and recently befriend me on face book as the very ugly, "cassie nova." It too me awhile to figure out who that hideous old woman was! When I did I was shocked!

 

Haha wow the guy went full "transformation". If he was one of the Transformers, he would be a "Transvesticon" or a "Transexticon"(the latter only if he was already snipped)... Ive seen cases of people where one never suspected anything like that, but then it turned out that they were "more" than friends... I wonder if the guy that lives as a "woman" now, had his "special" friend break up with him after he saw him talking to you... I could only begin to imagine the drama between those two, back at the bird cage...

 

 

 

Because everyone here seems to be sharing a story, I will share my own.

 

When I was going to a community college several years ago, I befriended this guy. Off the bat I knew he was gay - in regard to attitude, he is the stereotypical type; the one that talks in an accent and say, "Talk to the hand, girl cause the face ain't listening."

 

We hung out a lot. There were signs that he was into me, but I didn't connect the dots until a few years later.

 

A few years ago, I transferred to a University. I also haven't seen my friend in years. At the time, he moved to Sacramento for schooling. Since my University was near his, we decided to meet one day. The night before we were going to meet, I called him up and chatted. We ended up talking about butt hair going around the anal cavity - don't ask how that conversation started since I don't know how. To change the subject, I told him about this girl I was flirting with in class. He then starting to mock me, saying "Did you F**k her?" It got to the point where I had to admit that I was a virgin (at the time.)

 

He then said "It isn't gay for one guy to have sex with another guy for experience. Do you want to have sex?" My response was "Hell No!" Trying to not hurt his feelings, I continued with "Sorry. I don't eat ice cream just because it is ice cream. With that said, I wouldn't eat a broceli flavored ice cream just because it is ice cream. Because of it would cost me 40 bucks to Sac and then to my parents' house in the Bay Area(I visit my parents every weekend) as oppose to taking the University bus and heading to BA for 9 bucks, I decided not to meet him up the next day. We ended up not being friends for an unrelated reason.

 

As for hints, the guy likes Vietnamese American guys; back when we were at the junior college, I would tell him about my female crushes wheras he would tell me his. He said how he doesn't like Asians with the exception of Vietnamese guys since they have French blood - I think I told him my great grandmother was part French. He also went on about how when he just moved to Oakland, he started to date a Viet American. Funny thing was that at the time, he just moved to Oakland from LA and was single. So who was this Vietnamese American guy is he talking about? I had never heard of him before. After he asked me if I wanted to have sex with him years later, I finally realized that he meant me. Yikes!

 

Anyway, I roommated with another gay guy a year after my friend asked me for sex. This guy turned out to be a great roommate; he and his boyfriend(who was an artist for two issues of the Punisher) were the non-stereotypical gay couple. Currently, my best friend is a lesbian.

 

Wow man that's crazy... That's one of the reasons that I prefer to keep gay guys, only as "hello & goodbye" acquaintances (if even that), because most of them seem to develop a belief, that if another man is being nice to them, then "that must mean, that the nice guy likes them"... And if its a guy which they already know is straight, they feel that there must be a chance for them to hook-up with the straight guy... From what Ive seen many of them believe that because the straight guy is still friendly with the gay guy (after the gay guy has confessed his sexual orientation to the straight guy), many of them believe that they could "convert" the straight guy into becoming gay with them.... Just look at what that guy told you "It isn't gay for one guy to have sex with another guy for experience. Do you want to have sex?" he was obviously trying to convert you haha.

 

 

Thanks for the funny stories guys. I like how this thread has a become some sort of "group therapy session" for straight males that have been "victims" of gay "cat-calls", gay "touching", and gay invites haha. If anyone else has any stories, please share them with the group.

[Doom Saber]

in an effort to keep this post... off topic, I'll share a funny story.

 

Several years ago I worked at a ministry campus that offered several outreach activities, one of my co-workers happened to be gay. He was open with some of us, but did not act on the desire, believing the act was sinful. (not tyring to open up a can of worms here, this has a funny pay off)

As time went on, i never he changed his mind on that and we ended up going out to eat, we usually did so in a crowd, but everyone else was busy. Then a man a recognized as a "friend" of my buddy pulled up to the restaurant, looked pissed and then drove away. Little did I know they were more than friends, The man thought he cought my buddy cheaitng on him... with me ! awkward... I never went out by myself to grab some grub with him again ! Also my friend who so strongly refused to act on his temptations? Lives as a woman now and recently befriend me on face book as the very ugly, "cassie nova." It too me awhile to figure out who that hideous old woman was! When I did I was shocked!

 

Haha wow the guy went full "transformation". If he was one of the Transformers, he would be a "Transvesticon" or a "Transexticon"(the latter only if he was already snipped)... Ive seen cases of people where one never suspected anything like that, but then it turned out that they were "more" than friends... I wonder if the guy that lives as a "woman" now, had his "special" friend break up with him after he saw him talking to you... I could only begin to imagine the drama between those two, back at the bird cage...

 

 

 

Because everyone here seems to be sharing a story, I will share my own.

 

When I was going to a community college several years ago, I befriended this guy. Off the bat I knew he was gay - in regard to attitude, he is the stereotypical type; the one that talks in an accent and say, "Talk to the hand, girl cause the face ain't listening."

 

We hung out a lot. There were signs that he was into me, but I didn't connect the dots until a few years later.

 

A few years ago, I transferred to a University. I also haven't seen my friend in years. At the time, he moved to Sacramento for schooling. Since my University was near his, we decided to meet one day. The night before we were going to meet, I called him up and chatted. We ended up talking about butt hair going around the anal cavity - don't ask how that conversation started since I don't know how. To change the subject, I told him about this girl I was flirting with in class. He then starting to mock me, saying "Did you F**k her?" It got to the point where I had to admit that I was a virgin (at the time.)

 

He then said "It isn't gay for one guy to have sex with another guy for experience. Do you want to have sex?" My response was "Hell No!" Trying to not hurt his feelings, I continued with "Sorry. I don't eat ice cream just because it is ice cream. With that said, I wouldn't eat a broceli flavored ice cream just because it is ice cream. Because of it would cost me 40 bucks to Sac and then to my parents' house in the Bay Area(I visit my parents every weekend) as oppose to taking the University bus and heading to BA for 9 bucks, I decided not to meet him up the next day. We ended up not being friends for an unrelated reason.

 

As for hints, the guy likes Vietnamese American guys; back when we were at the junior college, I would tell him about my female crushes wheras he would tell me his. He said how he doesn't like Asians with the exception of Vietnamese guys since they have French blood - I think I told him my great grandmother was part French. He also went on about how when he just moved to Oakland, he started to date a Viet American. Funny thing was that at the time, he just moved to Oakland from LA and was single. So who was this Vietnamese American guy is he talking about? I had never heard of him before. After he asked me if I wanted to have sex with him years later, I finally realized that he meant me. Yikes!

 

Anyway, I roommated with another gay guy a year after my friend asked me for sex. This guy turned out to be a great roommate; he and his boyfriend(who was an artist for two issues of the Punisher) were the non-stereotypical gay couple. Currently, my best friend is a lesbian.

 

Wow man that's crazy... That's one of the reasons that I prefer to keep gay guys, only as "hello & goodbye" acquaintances (if even that), because most of them seem to develop a belief, that if another man is being nice to them, then "that must mean, that the nice guy likes them"... And if its a guy which they already know is straight, they feel that there must be a chance for them to hook-up with the straight guy... From what Ive seen many of them believe that because the straight guy is still friendly with the gay guy (after the gay guy has confessed his sexual orientation to the straight guy), many of them believe that they could "convert" the straight guy into becoming gay with them.... Just look at what that guy told you "It isn't gay for one guy to have sex with another guy for experience. Do you want to have sex?" he was obviously trying to convert you haha.

 

 

Thanks for the funny stories guys. I like how this thread has a become some sort of "group therapy session" for straight males that have been "victims" of gay "cat-calls", gay "touching", and gay invites haha. If anyone else has any stories, please share them with the group.

The point I was trying to make in my last comment (which wasn't apparent) is that the experiences mentioned here are isolated cases. What I am saying is that not all gay ppl will hit on you just because you are a guy. Even after my friend asked me for sex, my views of gay ppl hasn't changed. As said before, I roommates with another gay guy who was a classy person. He was just like any normal guy except he likes dudes. My best friend is a lesbian. I don't our stories encourage the stereotypical myth that all gay guys want you.

[Dick_Grayson]

in an effort to keep this post... off topic, I'll share a funny story.

 

Several years ago I worked at a ministry campus that offered several outreach activities, one of my co-workers happened to be gay. He was open with some of us, but did not act on the desire, believing the act was sinful. (not tyring to open up a can of worms here, this has a funny pay off)

As time went on, i never he changed his mind on that and we ended up going out to eat, we usually did so in a crowd, but everyone else was busy. Then a man a recognized as a "friend" of my buddy pulled up to the restaurant, looked pissed and then drove away. Little did I know they were more than friends, The man thought he cought my buddy cheaitng on him... with me ! awkward... I never went out by myself to grab some grub with him again ! Also my friend who so strongly refused to act on his temptations? Lives as a woman now and recently befriend me on face book as the very ugly, "cassie nova." It too me awhile to figure out who that hideous old woman was! When I did I was shocked!

 

Haha wow the guy went full "transformation". If he was one of the Transformers, he would be a "Transvesticon" or a "Transexticon"(the latter only if he was already snipped)... Ive seen cases of people where one never suspected anything like that, but then it turned out that they were "more" than friends... I wonder if the guy that lives as a "woman" now, had his "special" friend break up with him after he saw him talking to you... I could only begin to imagine the drama between those two, back at the bird cage...

 

 

 

Because everyone here seems to be sharing a story, I will share my own.

 

When I was going to a community college several years ago, I befriended this guy. Off the bat I knew he was gay - in regard to attitude, he is the stereotypical type; the one that talks in an accent and say, "Talk to the hand, girl cause the face ain't listening."

 

We hung out a lot. There were signs that he was into me, but I didn't connect the dots until a few years later.

 

A few years ago, I transferred to a University. I also haven't seen my friend in years. At the time, he moved to Sacramento for schooling. Since my University was near his, we decided to meet one day. The night before we were going to meet, I called him up and chatted. We ended up talking about butt hair going around the anal cavity - don't ask how that conversation started since I don't know how. To change the subject, I told him about this girl I was flirting with in class. He then starting to mock me, saying "Did you F**k her?" It got to the point where I had to admit that I was a virgin (at the time.)

 

He then said "It isn't gay for one guy to have sex with another guy for experience. Do you want to have sex?" My response was "Hell No!" Trying to not hurt his feelings, I continued with "Sorry. I don't eat ice cream just because it is ice cream. With that said, I wouldn't eat a broceli flavored ice cream just because it is ice cream. Because of it would cost me 40 bucks to Sac and then to my parents' house in the Bay Area(I visit my parents every weekend) as oppose to taking the University bus and heading to BA for 9 bucks, I decided not to meet him up the next day. We ended up not being friends for an unrelated reason.

 

As for hints, the guy likes Vietnamese American guys; back when we were at the junior college, I would tell him about my female crushes wheras he would tell me his. He said how he doesn't like Asians with the exception of Vietnamese guys since they have French blood - I think I told him my great grandmother was part French. He also went on about how when he just moved to Oakland, he started to date a Viet American. Funny thing was that at the time, he just moved to Oakland from LA and was single. So who was this Vietnamese American guy is he talking about? I had never heard of him before. After he asked me if I wanted to have sex with him years later, I finally realized that he meant me. Yikes!

 

Anyway, I roommated with another gay guy a year after my friend asked me for sex. This guy turned out to be a great roommate; he and his boyfriend(who was an artist for two issues of the Punisher) were the non-stereotypical gay couple. Currently, my best friend is a lesbian.

 

Wow man that's crazy... That's one of the reasons that I prefer to keep gay guys, only as "hello & goodbye" acquaintances (if even that), because most of them seem to develop a belief, that if another man is being nice to them, then "that must mean, that the nice guy likes them"... And if its a guy which they already know is straight, they feel that there must be a chance for them to hook-up with the straight guy... From what Ive seen many of them believe that because the straight guy is still friendly with the gay guy (after the gay guy has confessed his sexual orientation to the straight guy), many of them believe that they could "convert" the straight guy into becoming gay with them.... Just look at what that guy told you "It isn't gay for one guy to have sex with another guy for experience. Do you want to have sex?" he was obviously trying to convert you haha.

 

 

Thanks for the funny stories guys. I like how this thread has a become some sort of "group therapy session" for straight males that have been "victims" of gay "cat-calls", gay "touching", and gay invites haha. If anyone else has any stories, please share them with the group.

The point I was trying to make in my last comment (which wasn't apparent) is that the experiences mentioned here are isolated cases. What I am saying is that not all gay ppl will hit on you just because you are a guy. Even after my friend asked me for sex, my views of gay ppl hasn't changed. As said before, I roommates with another gay guy who was a classy person. He was just like any normal guy except he likes dudes. My best friend is a lesbian. I don't our stories encourage the stereotypical myth that all gay guys want you.

 

I understand. But the "stereotypical myth" of "that all gay guys want you", I don't see as a "myth" or a "stereotype" based on my personal experiences. I also never said that all gays were this, I specifically spoke about a specific kind of homosexual male. My belief is that its none of my business, if someone wants to be gay or not. I do however have a problem when gays purposely flirt, or make advances at guys that they already know to be straight in sexual orientation.

 

Whenever I continued to be friends with those same kind of gay guys which I knew that were attracted to me, those guys never respected the friendship and instead wanted more than a friendship. They would continue to make uncalled remarks and advances...which would eventually destroy the friendship. Yes not all gays in the world are this way of course, but I have encountered more that were in the way that I'm speaking about, than the ones that weren't. I am basing my whole view of the topic from personal experiences, and am not forcing my on views on anyone.

 

If you're fine being friends with gay guys even if they are attracted to you, good for you and to each his own. But I personally am not fine being friends with a gay male, after I know that they are attracted to me...based on all of the reasons which I have mentioned. That is the point that I was trying to get across.

[Doom Saber]

in an effort to keep this post... off topic, I'll share a funny story.

 

Several years ago I worked at a ministry campus that offered several outreach activities, one of my co-workers happened to be gay. He was open with some of us, but did not act on the desire, believing the act was sinful. (not tyring to open up a can of worms here, this has a funny pay off)

As time went on, i never he changed his mind on that and we ended up going out to eat, we usually did so in a crowd, but everyone else was busy. Then a man a recognized as a "friend" of my buddy pulled up to the restaurant, looked pissed and then drove away. Little did I know they were more than friends, The man thought he cought my buddy cheaitng on him... with me ! awkward... I never went out by myself to grab some grub with him again ! Also my friend who so strongly refused to act on his temptations? Lives as a woman now and recently befriend me on face book as the very ugly, "cassie nova." It too me awhile to figure out who that hideous old woman was! When I did I was shocked!

 

Haha wow the guy went full "transformation". If he was one of the Transformers, he would be a "Transvesticon" or a "Transexticon"(the latter only if he was already snipped)... Ive seen cases of people where one never suspected anything like that, but then it turned out that they were "more" than friends... I wonder if the guy that lives as a "woman" now, had his "special" friend break up with him after he saw him talking to you... I could only begin to imagine the drama between those two, back at the bird cage...

 

 

 

Because everyone here seems to be sharing a story, I will share my own.

 

When I was going to a community college several years ago, I befriended this guy. Off the bat I knew he was gay - in regard to attitude, he is the stereotypical type; the one that talks in an accent and say, "Talk to the hand, girl cause the face ain't listening."

 

We hung out a lot. There were signs that he was into me, but I didn't connect the dots until a few years later.

 

A few years ago, I transferred to a University. I also haven't seen my friend in years. At the time, he moved to Sacramento for schooling. Since my University was near his, we decided to meet one day. The night before we were going to meet, I called him up and chatted. We ended up talking about butt hair going around the anal cavity - don't ask how that conversation started since I don't know how. To change the subject, I told him about this girl I was flirting with in class. He then starting to mock me, saying "Did you F**k her?" It got to the point where I had to admit that I was a virgin (at the time.)

 

He then said "It isn't gay for one guy to have sex with another guy for experience. Do you want to have sex?" My response was "Hell No!" Trying to not hurt his feelings, I continued with "Sorry. I don't eat ice cream just because it is ice cream. With that said, I wouldn't eat a broceli flavored ice cream just because it is ice cream. Because of it would cost me 40 bucks to Sac and then to my parents' house in the Bay Area(I visit my parents every weekend) as oppose to taking the University bus and heading to BA for 9 bucks, I decided not to meet him up the next day. We ended up not being friends for an unrelated reason.

 

As for hints, the guy likes Vietnamese American guys; back when we were at the junior college, I would tell him about my female crushes wheras he would tell me his. He said how he doesn't like Asians with the exception of Vietnamese guys since they have French blood - I think I told him my great grandmother was part French. He also went on about how when he just moved to Oakland, he started to date a Viet American. Funny thing was that at the time, he just moved to Oakland from LA and was single. So who was this Vietnamese American guy is he talking about? I had never heard of him before. After he asked me if I wanted to have sex with him years later, I finally realized that he meant me. Yikes!

 

Anyway, I roommated with another gay guy a year after my friend asked me for sex. This guy turned out to be a great roommate; he and his boyfriend(who was an artist for two issues of the Punisher) were the non-stereotypical gay couple. Currently, my best friend is a lesbian.

 

Wow man that's crazy... That's one of the reasons that I prefer to keep gay guys, only as "hello & goodbye" acquaintances (if even that), because most of them seem to develop a belief, that if another man is being nice to them, then "that must mean, that the nice guy likes them"... And if its a guy which they already know is straight, they feel that there must be a chance for them to hook-up with the straight guy... From what Ive seen many of them believe that because the straight guy is still friendly with the gay guy (after the gay guy has confessed his sexual orientation to the straight guy), many of them believe that they could "convert" the straight guy into becoming gay with them.... Just look at what that guy told you "It isn't gay for one guy to have sex with another guy for experience. Do you want to have sex?" he was obviously trying to convert you haha.

 

 

Thanks for the funny stories guys. I like how this thread has a become some sort of "group therapy session" for straight males that have been "victims" of gay "cat-calls", gay "touching", and gay invites haha. If anyone else has any stories, please share them with the group.

The point I was trying to make in my last comment (which wasn't apparent) is that the experiences mentioned here are isolated cases. What I am saying is that not all gay ppl will hit on you just because you are a guy. Even after my friend asked me for sex, my views of gay ppl hasn't changed. As said before, I roommates with another gay guy who was a classy person. He was just like any normal guy except he likes dudes. My best friend is a lesbian. I don't our stories encourage the stereotypical myth that all gay guys want you.

 

I understand. But the "stereotypical myth" of "that all gay guys want you", I don't see as a "myth" or a "stereotype" based on my personal experiences. I also never said that all gays were this, I specifically spoke about a specific kind of homosexual male. My belief is that its none of my business, if someone wants to be gay or not. I do however have a problem when gays purposely flirt, or make advances at guys that they already know to be straight in sexual orientation.

 

Whenever I continued to be friends with those same kind of gay guys which I knew that were attracted to me, those guys never respected the friendship and instead wanted more than a friendship. They would continue to make uncalled remarks and advances...which would eventually destroy the friendship. Yes not all gays in the world are this way of course, but I have encountered more that were in the way that I'm speaking about, than the ones that weren't. I am basing my whole view of the topic from personal experiences, and am not forcing my on views on anyone.

 

If you're fine being friends with gay guys even if they are attracted to you, good for you and to each his own. But I personally am not fine being friends with a gay male, after I know that they are attracted to me...based on all of the reasons which I have mentioned. That is the point that I was trying to get across.

 

 

I know you didn't generalize. I wanted to say the generalize issue that in my original comment, but worded incorrectly. It wasn't really a personal comment to you, but a disclaimer to ppl reading the forums. A lot of kids, as well as ppl living under rocks, visit the forums. With that said, they might generalize my story as something that happens in society often. In other words, I can see the thread getting ugly quite quickly without any caution. It had has happened before with other topics.

[apocalypse484]

It's okay to be Takei. It's okay to be Takei

Haha! I get it. While I don't have anything against the man, I remember he was on Howard Stern a few years ago, and a switch-hitter by the name of Jonah Falcon was on the show... Falcon claims to have a 13" penis (Ive never seen it, and don't want to), and when Falcon was allegedly whipping it out on the show, Mr. Takei kept offering to want to touch it..... I guess gay guys love big c*cks, for some reason, even more so that some females it seems...

 

Theres a video on youtube where George Takai talks about being gay. Its hilarious. okay to be takai is his slogan

[Dick_Grayson]

in an effort to keep this post... off topic, I'll share a funny story.

 

Several years ago I worked at a ministry campus that offered several outreach activities, one of my co-workers happened to be gay. He was open with some of us, but did not act on the desire, believing the act was sinful. (not tyring to open up a can of worms here, this has a funny pay off)

As time went on, i never he changed his mind on that and we ended up going out to eat, we usually did so in a crowd, but everyone else was busy. Then a man a recognized as a "friend" of my buddy pulled up to the restaurant, looked pissed and then drove away. Little did I know they were more than friends, The man thought he cought my buddy cheaitng on him... with me ! awkward... I never went out by myself to grab some grub with him again ! Also my friend who so strongly refused to act on his temptations? Lives as a woman now and recently befriend me on face book as the very ugly, "cassie nova." It too me awhile to figure out who that hideous old woman was! When I did I was shocked!

 

Haha wow the guy went full "transformation". If he was one of the Transformers, he would be a "Transvesticon" or a "Transexticon"(the latter only if he was already snipped)... Ive seen cases of people where one never suspected anything like that, but then it turned out that they were "more" than friends... I wonder if the guy that lives as a "woman" now, had his "special" friend break up with him after he saw him talking to you... I could only begin to imagine the drama between those two, back at the bird cage...

 

 

 

Because everyone here seems to be sharing a story, I will share my own.

 

When I was going to a community college several years ago, I befriended this guy. Off the bat I knew he was gay - in regard to attitude, he is the stereotypical type; the one that talks in an accent and say, "Talk to the hand, girl cause the face ain't listening."

 

We hung out a lot. There were signs that he was into me, but I didn't connect the dots until a few years later.

 

A few years ago, I transferred to a University. I also haven't seen my friend in years. At the time, he moved to Sacramento for schooling. Since my University was near his, we decided to meet one day. The night before we were going to meet, I called him up and chatted. We ended up talking about butt hair going around the anal cavity - don't ask how that conversation started since I don't know how. To change the subject, I told him about this girl I was flirting with in class. He then starting to mock me, saying "Did you F**k her?" It got to the point where I had to admit that I was a virgin (at the time.)

 

He then said "It isn't gay for one guy to have sex with another guy for experience. Do you want to have sex?" My response was "Hell No!" Trying to not hurt his feelings, I continued with "Sorry. I don't eat ice cream just because it is ice cream. With that said, I wouldn't eat a broceli flavored ice cream just because it is ice cream. Because of it would cost me 40 bucks to Sac and then to my parents' house in the Bay Area(I visit my parents every weekend) as oppose to taking the University bus and heading to BA for 9 bucks, I decided not to meet him up the next day. We ended up not being friends for an unrelated reason.

 

As for hints, the guy likes Vietnamese American guys; back when we were at the junior college, I would tell him about my female crushes wheras he would tell me his. He said how he doesn't like Asians with the exception of Vietnamese guys since they have French blood - I think I told him my great grandmother was part French. He also went on about how when he just moved to Oakland, he started to date a Viet American. Funny thing was that at the time, he just moved to Oakland from LA and was single. So who was this Vietnamese American guy is he talking about? I had never heard of him before. After he asked me if I wanted to have sex with him years later, I finally realized that he meant me. Yikes!

 

Anyway, I roommated with another gay guy a year after my friend asked me for sex. This guy turned out to be a great roommate; he and his boyfriend(who was an artist for two issues of the Punisher) were the non-stereotypical gay couple. Currently, my best friend is a lesbian.

 

Wow man that's crazy... That's one of the reasons that I prefer to keep gay guys, only as "hello & goodbye" acquaintances (if even that), because most of them seem to develop a belief, that if another man is being nice to them, then "that must mean, that the nice guy likes them"... And if its a guy which they already know is straight, they feel that there must be a chance for them to hook-up with the straight guy... From what Ive seen many of them believe that because the straight guy is still friendly with the gay guy (after the gay guy has confessed his sexual orientation to the straight guy), many of them believe that they could "convert" the straight guy into becoming gay with them.... Just look at what that guy told you "It isn't gay for one guy to have sex with another guy for experience. Do you want to have sex?" he was obviously trying to convert you haha.

 

 

Thanks for the funny stories guys. I like how this thread has a become some sort of "group therapy session" for straight males that have been "victims" of gay "cat-calls", gay "touching", and gay invites haha. If anyone else has any stories, please share them with the group.

The point I was trying to make in my last comment (which wasn't apparent) is that the experiences mentioned here are isolated cases. What I am saying is that not all gay ppl will hit on you just because you are a guy. Even after my friend asked me for sex, my views of gay ppl hasn't changed. As said before, I roommates with another gay guy who was a classy person. He was just like any normal guy except he likes dudes. My best friend is a lesbian. I don't our stories encourage the stereotypical myth that all gay guys want you.

 

I understand. But the "stereotypical myth" of "that all gay guys want you", I don't see as a "myth" or a "stereotype" based on my personal experiences. I also never said that all gays were this, I specifically spoke about a specific kind of homosexual male. My belief is that its none of my business, if someone wants to be gay or not. I do however have a problem when gays purposely flirt, or make advances at guys that they already know to be straight in sexual orientation.

 

Whenever I continued to be friends with those same kind of gay guys which I knew that were attracted to me, those guys never respected the friendship and instead wanted more than a friendship. They would continue to make uncalled remarks and advances...which would eventually destroy the friendship. Yes not all gays in the world are this way of course, but I have encountered more that were in the way that I'm speaking about, than the ones that weren't. I am basing my whole view of the topic from personal experiences, and am not forcing my on views on anyone.

 

If you're fine being friends with gay guys even if they are attracted to you, good for you and to each his own. But I personally am not fine being friends with a gay male, after I know that they are attracted to me...based on all of the reasons which I have mentioned. That is the point that I was trying to get across.

 

 

I know you didn't generalize. I wanted to say the generalize issue that in my original comment, but worded incorrectly. It wasn't really a personal comment to you, but a disclaimer to ppl reading the forums. A lot of kids, as well as ppl living under rocks, visit the forums. With that said, they might generalize my story as something that happens in society often. In other words, I can see the thread getting ugly quite quickly without any caution. It had has happened before with other topics.

 

I understand what you mean now. Thank you for clearing that up.

[Dick_Grayson]

It's okay to be Takei. It's okay to be Takei

Haha! I get it. While I don't have anything against the man, I remember he was on Howard Stern a few years ago, and a switch-hitter by the name of Jonah Falcon was on the show... Falcon claims to have a 13" penis (Ive never seen it, and don't want to), and when Falcon was allegedly whipping it out on the show, Mr. Takei kept offering to want to touch it..... I guess gay guys love big c*cks, for some reason, even more so that some females it seems...

 

Theres a video on youtube where George Takai talks about being gay. Its hilarious. okay to be takai is his slogan

 

Haha I see. I thought that "its okay to be takei", being his way of saying "its OK to be gay" since it rhymes.

[RC_rika]

I went in here, this definitely has NOTHING to do with Star Wars. Yikes, lol.

[hamsterboy]

Nope. It's the Star Trek section.